In my last relationship I used to ask myself this question over and over again. I realized that so many women do the same. When is enough enough? Basically what is your breaking point in a relationship? The top points are always cheating and domestic violence but in these situations some women still stay. I thought about this question when a friend told me about a crazy possibility that could become a factor in her relationship(tried to keep that as random as possible to not reveal her identity lol). This possibility got me thinking would this be her breaking point? After all the other crap she’s dealt with could this possibility make her end it all? I came to the conclusion of no, but I wondered why not?
For me, definitely, but it’s always easier to say when you are not in that position. Men definitely know their woman’s breaking point and they always seem to want to push it further just to see what they can get away with. Before you get involved in a relationship, you should already have your breaking point established. You should also let him know so when he takes you to that point, he’ll understand why you are packing bags and leaving. No one should ever compromise on their breaking point. It’s like compromising on your values. Once a guy sees you giving an inch, he’s definitely going to take a mile and expect you to be okay. The hardest thing about sticking to your breaking point is realizing,once he’s passed it, that you have to be alone. No more having someone there to hold your hand and be there for you. No one to help you out or give you a hug. But when a person passes that point you will soon realize that you are much better off. Maybe you will find someone who won’t come close to reaching your breaking point or ever make you say enough is enough.