I’m sure you all have heard that term before but when it comes to dating is it true? I guess when you are old and famous it’s okay, hence Madonna and her young boy toy. But for people in the real world is this really something that is approved of. Me, personally, my age limit is 30, well it was until I found out a certain person I’m “talking” to is passed this. It didn’t change my feelings towards him and this got me to thinking maybe age really doesn’t matter. Now I’m not saying go rob the cradle and definitely don’t rob the grave, but do what works for you. I personally couldn’t date someone younger than me. I am 25 years old and am just fully coming into my own. I don’t need a little boy running around pussy whipped( I’m just saying). With that being said I also couldn’t date someone much older than me. I don’t need you reminiscing about the Earth, Wind, and Fire concert you snuck out the house to see.
Most people say that the main reason for dating over or under your age is sex. For being with a younger mate it is better since they have more energy and for being with an older mate it brings more experience. For me when it comes to the sex thing I just can’t get Adam Sandler’s quote out of my head, “Loose skin and old balls..gross.” Lol. But really I think it goes back to the individual. Instead of focusing on their age, just focus on them. Do they have dreams or goals? Do they have personality? These things mature more as the person does but don’t expect all 30 something year olds to have it all together. They can be as immature as the 20 something year old you keep ignoring. People are so judgemental about whoever you date so it’s no wonder why age is a factor as well. I just say go with whatever makes you happy and is well in the limits of the law. 😉