Okay, every woman knows who HIM is. It’s the one that got away. He can be your first boyfriend, first love, or even your first crush. Whoever he is and for whatever reason you guys split, do you ever find yourself dating men that remind you of him? Whenever I see a guy or think I might be interested, I always find myself saying, “He does act like so and so,” or “He is funny like so and so.” Now I don’t do this on purpose but I find it funny that if that person doesn’t make me think about HIM then I am not interested. Now most people would say, well maybe you still have feelings for HIM but I wouldn’t whole heartily agree. In my case, it’s half and half. But I think for most women we always remember that first one and if it leaves a good impression, we go searching for that feeling forever. What sucks is most the time that feeling can never be found again. As I can only speak for myself I find this to be somewhat of a challenge since HIM is still currently in my life. I look at other guys and immediately compare which is doing nothing but keeping me single. For now, I don’t worry about it since I am enjoying the single life for once, but I think about years down the line when I am ready to start dating. Will all my relationships ultimately fail because I am holding these men to a ridiculous standard? Or will I realize that HIM should no longer be HIM and keep it moving? Who know…only time will tell. 🙂
Does He Remind You of HIM?