Excuse the abrasive title but when I look at the picture of Tameka Foster, Usher’s ex and children’s mother, those are the only words that come to mind. Only a bitch would keep a man from his kids intentionally. Only a bitch would get upset with the new woman in his life especially when she has done nothing wrong. You are mad because he has moved on with his life and you just can’t let it go. For me as a single mother, women like this piss me off. Both of my son’s father’s are not involved in their lives. One just doesn’t give a damn and the other is too damn crazy. I would give anything to have a man that was an excellent father and wanted nothing more than to be there for his child.
Women like Tameka do nothing but take stuff for granted. You are mad because he wants more time with his kids? Chick, try having no one around to help you with your kids. Try doing everything solely on your own. Try not being able to have any type of social life. Seriously I couldn’t even eat my food while I was at a restaurant because my child wanted to try to commit suicide and keep standing up in his chair. And let’s not even talk about finances. My biggest pet peeve is when chicks say I want more in child support. Oh 3 or 4,000 a month is not enough? Chick, try getting $50 a week, if that. Women stop being so spiteful. So what if he doesn’t want you anymore. So what if he is beating down a better looking chick than you. So what if his career is more successful than yours. What does that have to do with the both of you raising that child? Have you ever stopped to think that maybe you are affecting your kids in a negative way? What child wants to constantly be around their parents who are always fighting? This does nothing but put a rift between yourself and your child. It’s not worth it.
So instead of being selfish and spiteful have common sense. You have a man that would do anything for his kids. Give him his time. Trust me. Us single moms would never take that for granted. Be thankful he is asking for more time instead of ignoring your calls. We always criticize men for being deadbeats and then when a good one comes around, you still tear him down. Make up your mind.