This is not a rhetorical question. I really would like to know where have all the real men gone. As each day goes by the realization begins to set in. The real man is becoming extinct. Now there are people out there who will argue that there are real men still around but I have yet find any. At least not any single ones. Before we argue about the fact that they are damn near non-existent, let’s define a real man. At least from my perspective. A real man is a man who has obtainable goals in life. Did you catch that? Obtainable goals! Not the “I’m 35 and I still wanna be the next Jay Z” type of goals. But actual goals that make sense and they are in the process of achieving. A real man has morals and knows how to respect women. I had a guy tell me that him calling me a bitch was a compliment. I was supposed to thank the Heavens that he called me his bitch…um excuse me? Yeah, he never got a call back. Also a real man should be able to respect another man as well. Guys are always so quick to jump on another guy for being successful. Why is that? Why can’t you acknowledge his success and continue hustling to get yours? Guys nowadays are so damn cocky it’s disgusting. Why are you worried about the next man anyway? Also I feel like a man is versatile. They can switch it up and adapt to any environment or situation. I want a guy that I can take to a jazz club and don’t have to hear “Man they ain’t got no Future in here.” Or I can take to a corporate party and not have to worry about him getting drunk and trying to smash the boss’ wife.
Where Have all the Real Men Gone?
I think that all the real men are dying off because it is a fact. Go out today and tell me how many potentials you see. I’m sure by the end of the week you’ll only have counted them on one hand and will still have some fingers left. Now who’s to blame for the real man’s decline? I personally blame every ratchet girl in America. If women weren’t so easily impressed then these guys would have to step their game up. But you raggedy chicks make it so easy for them they stop trying. Then they get complacent and feel like they don’t have to do anything to get women. If women stopped accepting, “Hey red, yo booty looking good in those jeans” as a compliment maybe we would get a respectful comment or two. But as more and more women are not even respecting themselves, it’s kind of stupid to expect a man to. But this does not give you guys the excuse to not step up to the plate. You should want to become a real man and do better. You should want successful, intelligent women blowing up your phone…not these hood rats. So ladies if you a fortunate to have a real man, hold on to him and count your blessings. As for me and many of you single women out there, I don’t know what to say. Maybe we should pack up and head to another planet. We might find better potential out there. 🙂