Okay, so you guys should know by now that I have the hardest time coming up with my post titles. I will literally ponder over it for 30 minutes until something pops into my head. With this post I could only think of, “Stop!”. Fellas, this post is for you. Normally I am on you guys’ side when it comes to certain things because I feel like we think alike, but this has gone far enough. Look, if you know that you don’t want to be romantically involved with someone and you know that they are catching feelings, do that girl a favor and back off. I have seen it so many times and I really am tired of it. Just STOP! And then it gets worse because you guys then get mad at the female for having those feelings when you are the one who is making them grow. For example, Johnny starts to talk to Becky. They go out often and talk on the phone numerous times. Johnny does not want to be involved in any way, but he continues to take Becky out. Becky begins to fall in love and even though Johnny sees this he doesn’t back off.
Now I’m sure you are saying, well maybe Johnny does like Becky. Uh negative. Being around several guys, I know that Becky is just being used for either sex or her time. Now, normally, I would care less about this situation. Becky should just wise up and stop talking to Johnny. But you men are slick. You don’t let Becky know the full truth. Yes, you might say to her that you don’t want to be in a relationship, but what are your actions saying? If you are going out with this person every weekend and you both have full time jobs, in her eyes you are making time for her whereas to you, it’s just one of several other dates every week. If you are constantly tweeting her or giving her pet names, in her eyes she is the only one for you whereas to you, you are just being your normal, playful self. STOP! Just stop it. You guys aren’t stupid. You know what you are doing. You know the difference between a friendship and someone falling in love. You know that if you invite someone over for Thanksgiving that they are going to be planning the wedding that very night. So why do you guys do it? Is it for fun? Is it just to see how far it will go?
I will say this. Anyone who knows me knows that I only write about something I am going through or have experienced. Obviously this is happening around me and NO IT IS NOT HAPPENING TO ME! But it is happening and it does somehow involve me. But like always I take to the blog and I will just let this play out however it does. It will be nice to tell this person I told you so for once in life. But I do, kinda, feel sorry for the Becky. They don’t deserve to be turned into a ditch digger. Trust me, I know that role. And let me tell you, I hear it takes a good 10 years to get out of that ditch. SO guys…if you don’t want to walk down the aisle just yet then let Becky know and play the part. There is nothing wrong with having Becky as a friend but make sure the actions are the reflection of this.